No, this is not about morality nor is this about ethics. Its simply about love, and thoughts that pertains to whether feeling love is right or wrong.
Love is never something wrong. It is not to be used as a means to an end. There is also no certainty about love. The feeling itself dictates that whatever the outcome of events are, whatever happens, the love you felt is and will always be true.
What is wrong nowadays is people expecting things about love: should it not be reciprocated, the effects of admitting the feelings, the endless planning for that "RIGHT" moment... When things do not follow the plans accordingly, people tend to blame it on love. They become cynics, pessimists, and in doing so, force themselves out of the feeling because of thousands of regrets. These are things that are, as a fact, not to be blamed on anyone, much less on love.
It is pointless to love if you expect something in return. Should it not be that you are happy to be able to love? There are those who try and yet could not do so. Love is supposedly a beginning, whether or not the feelings are returned, to becoming a better person. Regrets should not be part of a person's experience when it comes to love, because it would only taint the picture.
Love takes many shapes and forms. It is always returned, though not always in the manner that we would have wanted it to be. Though many things may go wrong in the course of finding that one truly meant for each of us, the love we give to those we encounter is never really wrong, it's just that it might not be the right type of love we are looking for.
Love is never something wrong. It is not to be used as a means to an end. There is also no certainty about love. The feeling itself dictates that whatever the outcome of events are, whatever happens, the love you felt is and will always be true.
What is wrong nowadays is people expecting things about love: should it not be reciprocated, the effects of admitting the feelings, the endless planning for that "RIGHT" moment... When things do not follow the plans accordingly, people tend to blame it on love. They become cynics, pessimists, and in doing so, force themselves out of the feeling because of thousands of regrets. These are things that are, as a fact, not to be blamed on anyone, much less on love.
It is pointless to love if you expect something in return. Should it not be that you are happy to be able to love? There are those who try and yet could not do so. Love is supposedly a beginning, whether or not the feelings are returned, to becoming a better person. Regrets should not be part of a person's experience when it comes to love, because it would only taint the picture.
Love takes many shapes and forms. It is always returned, though not always in the manner that we would have wanted it to be. Though many things may go wrong in the course of finding that one truly meant for each of us, the love we give to those we encounter is never really wrong, it's just that it might not be the right type of love we are looking for.
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